(17-12-2021) Abstract: Telegonie, invloed van de eerste man(nen) op het nageslacht. Ouders willen gezonde kinderen hebben. Het bioveld of de golfcode bepaalt de DNA-sequenties. Een jonge vrouw en een jonge man kunnen hun wortels beschermen.
Volgens Dr. Vogt ongeveer 2000 jaar geleden de wetenchapsgemeenschap destijds heeft de wetenschap veranderd. Onze huige westerse wetenschap is daardoor materie georienteerd. De thora zegt: “Leg over een ander geen vals getuigenis af” Exodus 20:16. De leugens zo’n 2000 jaar geleden hebben daarom nu grote implicaties op onze huidige wetenschapsgemeenschap. Dit is ook de reden dat men de zon nova niet heeft kunnen ontdekken, hoe de poolswitches precies werken en hoe de rest van ons universum in elkaar steekt.
In Plato's filosofie heeft u het idee van een appel en de manifestatie van een appel, er was een wereld van vormen en een wereld van materie. Bij Aristoteles zijn zij een en dezelfde, een wereld van vorm en materie.
Volgens Dr. Vogt de bijbel is in Rome in het Grieks geschreven als een toneelstuk. Jezus en Arius Calpurnius Piso zijn dezelfde persoon en hij werd geboren rond oktober 37 na Christus. De auteurs van het oude en het nieuwe testament zijn allemaal bekend. Exodus 20:16 Leg over een ander geen vals getuigenis af [geschreven door Mozes] De leugens 2000 jaar geleden hebben een enorme impact op onze moderne westerse samenleving van vandaag. De Thora, eerste 5 boeken van de Hebreeuwse bijbel zijn origineel.
Dr. Peter Gariaev stierf op 17 november 2020. Vlak voor zijn dood op 20 oktober 2020 werd hij een Nobelprijskandidaat in de geneeskunde voor zijn uitstekende werk in de golfgenetica. Dr. Peter Gariaev kreeg de Nobelprijs niet maar voor mij was zijn werk in 2021 veruit de beste prestatie in de geneeskunde in vergelijking met andere onderzoeken in de geneeskunde dat jaar.
In dit concept onderzoek zijn er 2 hypotheses opgesteld. H(0) -HYPOTHESE: Het nageslacht van een vrouw zal worden beïnvloed door de geslachtsgemeenschap met haar voormalige mannelijke partners en dan met name de eerste man. H(1) -HYPOTHESE: Het nageslacht van een vrouw wordt niet beïnvloed door de geslachtsgemeenschap met haar voormalige mannelijke partners en dan in het bijzonder de eerste man.
Volgens W.P.A.H. de Vries de conlusies van dit concept onderzoek zijn:
1. Het bioveld of de golfcode bepaalt de DNA-sequenties in elk levend wezen op aarde.
2. De H(0) -HYPOTHESE is bewezen, geen PARADOX en geen FALLACY. De H(0) -HYPOTHESIS wordt bewezen door informatie over te dragen door scalaire golven in experimenten in erwten, gist en bloemen zonder fysiek contact dat door iedere andere wetenschapper kan worden herhaald met de apparatuur van Prof. Dr. Ing. Meyl en geeft nieuwe inzichten aan het huidige dominante biomedische PARADIGMA die dit fenomeen niet kan verklaren met de huidige biochemische mechanismen. Prof. Dr. Ing. K. Meyl leverde de ontbrekende schakel die ik had in mijn onderzoek. Ook Dr. Peter Gariaev kwam tot dezelfde conclusies. Over zijn apparatuur kan niet veel zeggen en weet niet precies hoe zijn technologie werkt!
3. Natuurlijk wordt dit gevoelige onderwerp van Telegony door mensen misbruikt voor hun eigen doelen. Dat is triest. Veel mensen zijn echter niet zo. Ik heb dit niet onderzocht in mijn onderzoek.
4. Het effect van sommige fysieke molecuulstructuren kan worden overgedragen over grotere afstanden door middel van elektrische en magnetische velden. Het kan ook worden overgedragen over kleinere afstanden.
5. Scalaire golven of longitudinale golven (de golfcode) zijn verantwoordelijk voor de communicatie tussen de cellen in elk levend wezen. Een aura bevat scalaire golven.
Volgens W.P.A.H. de Vries was niet Adam de eerste man maar metaforisch was God de eerste man die Adam schiep met zijn golfcode in zijn vinger. Dit is te zien op de schildering van Michelangelo hierboven.
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Abstract: Telegony, influence of the first man or men on posterity. Parents want to have healthy children. The biofield or wave code determines the DNA sequences. A young woman and a young man can protect their roots.
According to Dr. Vogt about 2000 years ago the science community at that time changed the science. Our current Western science is therefore matter-oriented. The Torah says, "Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor" Exodus 20:16. The lies 2000 years ago therefore now have major implications for our current science community. This is also the reason that they have not been able to discover the solar nova, how the pole switches work exactly and how the rest of our universe works.
In Plato's philosophy you have the idea of an apple and the manifestation of an apple, there was a world of forms and a world of matter. In Aristotle they are one and the same, a world of form and matter.
According to Dr. Vogt the Bible was written in Greek in Rome as a play. Jesus and Arius Calpurnius Piso are the same person and he was born around October 37 AD. The authors of the old and new Testaments are all known. Exodus 20:16 Thou shalt not bear false witness to thy neighbor [written by Moses] The lies 2000 years ago are having a tremendous impact on our modern Western society today. The Torah, first 5 books of the hebrew bible are original.
Dr. Peter Gariaev died on 17 november 2020. Just before his dead on 20 october 2020 he became a Nobel prize candidate in medicine for his outstanding work in wave-genetics. Dr. Peter Gariaev did not get the Nobel prize but for me his work was far out the best performance in medicine in 2021 compared to other researches in medicine that year.
In this concept research 2 hypotheses have been formulated. H (0) -HYPOTHESIS: A woman's offspring will be affected by sexual intercourse with her former male partners, especially the first man. H (1) -HYPOTHESIS: A woman's progeny is unaffected by sexual intercourse with her former male partners, especially the first man.
According to W.P.A.H. de Vries the conclusions of this concept study are:
1. The biofield or wavecode determines the DNA sequences in every living being on Earth.
2. The H (0) -HYPOTHESE has been proven, no PARADOX and no FALLACY. The H (0) -HYPOTHESIS is proven by transmitting information by scalar waves in experiments in peas, yeast and flowers without physical contact that can be repeated by any other scientist with the equipment of Prof. Dr. Ing. Meyl and provides new insights to the current dominant biomedical PARADIGM that cannot explain this phenomenon with current biochemical mechanisms. Prof. Dr. Ing. K. Meyl provided the missing link I had in my research. Also Dr. Peter Gariaev came to the same conclusions. Can't say much about his equipment and don't know exactly how his technology works!
3. Of course, this sensitive subject of Telegony is being misused by people for their own ends. That is sad. However, many people are not like that. I have not explored this in my research.
4. The effect of some physical molecular structures can be transferred over greater distances by means of electric and magnetic fields. It can also be transferred over shorter distances. ‘
5. Scalar waves or longitudinal waves (the wave code) are responsible for the communication between cells in every living being. An aura contains scalar waves.
According W.P.A.H. de Vries not Adam was the first man but metaphorically God was the first man who created Adam with his wavecode in his finger. This can be seen in the painting from Michelangelo above.
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(22-12-2021) Shohreh Feshtali gaat het gesprek aan met Adelheid Storms. Een ijzer sterke jonge vrouw, die vele anderen inspireert. 'Ik ben een geboren moeder' verteld ze. Ze omarmt het vrouw zijn en alles wat hierbij komt kijken. Dit was niet altijd het geval. Zo heeft ze door vele ups and downs, de waarde van het leven en haar kracht weer terug moeten vinden. Al jaren lang zet ze zich in voor de medemens. Onderwerpen wat voor velen nog taboe blijkt te zijn, probeert Adelheid spreekbaar te maken. Haar vastberadenheid om onderdrukte informatie boven tafel te krijgen, spreekt zich iedere dag weer uit tot vele vrouwen, maar ook mannen die hier baat bij hebben. Anticonceptie vestuurt de natuurlijke cyclus van de vrouw en kan van allerlei lichamelijke klachten vooroorzaken zoals bijvoorbeeld depresiviteit, afgevlakte emoties, gewicht, geur bij keuze van je partner. Een huisarts verteld dit meestal niet. Alle keuzes hebben consequenties en verantwoordelijkheid is hierbij belangrijk.
(19-06-2022) In old tribal times all the woman had the same menstrual cycle at the same time at new moon. All(most) of the woman were bleeding at the new moon, have gathering and bleed togethe directly on to the earth. With the new moon we plan seeds of intention. The blood can also be used for nourishment of plants or skin. A woman can have red mooncycle, a white moon cycle or some other variation and can change. The white moon cycle is said to be in the mother phase of her life. Either she wants to get pregnant and start a family or focus on nurturing and raising her children. The red moon cycle is focussed on other things than getting pregnant, although she can be mother, she uses her energy different.
(29-10-2021) The Netherlands Wifi free! (29-10-2021) https://www.antennebureau.nl/
This research started with a translation of two Russian articles namely Telegony and Experimental Genetics together with ms. L.V. Shelestova. See ENCLOSURE 1 and 5. The translations later became a summary. The articles were written to let people think about the information and decide for themselves what to do with it. Much later I changed this subject in to project Wave code.
H(0)-HYPOTHESIS:
Telegony says that the offspring of a woman will be influenced by the intercourse with her former male partners and particular the first man.
In this research I want to answer two questions namely 1) Is the H(0)-HYPOTHESIS TRUE, FALSE, a PARADOX , a FALLACY or PARADIGM? 2) Is this sensitive subject of Telegony being misused by people for their own purpose?
Telegony, Influence of the first male(s) on the offspring.
Parents want to have healthy children. The biofield or wave code sets the DNA sequences.
A young woman and young man can protect their roots.
CHAPTER 22. INFLUENCES ON HUMAN BEINGS - TEMPORARY CONCLUSIONS.
When a human is sitting all the time behind a computer or using a mobile phone all the time the red bloodcells will stick together and are showing unhealthy paterns in the plasma under a microscope. This test can be repeated anywhere by any dokter or scientist so this is scientifictly proven. This is called electro smog. See ENCLOSURE 12 (Unkown, 2013). These frequencies around this specific human can been seen as a sort of wavecode around him but then in a negative way changing the patterns of the bloodcells in the plasma. When the frequencies around a human being are too high and the period is too long eventually he or she gets destroyed. He (or she) will reform and will get the new shape of the frequency he is exposed to. A human being is functioning on very low frequencies and energy levels and this is what makes him/her a human being. A gamma laser is functioning on very high frequencies or energy level and this can be a good instrument to make a sort of picture like a photo of the “fine material substance”. Photography means writing with light and that is exactly what is happening with a gamma laser which is reading the “fine material substance” and puts this on a display. When a laser is having the “specific frequencies” (wavecode) of “specific material” it can reshape the material that is exposed into that “specific material”. According (Bobtel08, 2008) when a maize corn is placed between 4 mobile phones ringing at the same time this maize corn will be popped up to popcorn. According (Justin Flom, 2013) in about the same setting with mobile phones around a maizecorn under a wineglass placed on a book only the glass is breaking and the maizecorn is not popping up. (The signal can be to far away and also how dry a maizecorn is are some other factors that can influence the experiments) According Nakkodotcom. (2008) when a mobile phone is placed between popcorn it destroys itself because somehow the radiation is reflected by the popcorn. (20-01-2020) It is not clear if this tests are true or not and these test needs to be repeated under standard conditions first before drawing any further conclusions. (***This test can be repeated by any scientist anywhere and is the proof that a mobile phone can damage the brain of a human when the intensity of the frequency is to high or duration of the brain being exposed to a mobile phone is to long. Of course we do not want to test this with 4 mobile phones on a human being around his head.***) Digital screens in secondary school is not something we want to expose our children to for 7-8 hours every day. Wifi is very unhealthy and we do not want that in our society but only cable connections in all kind of devices. For example: we do not want Wifi radios, Wifi televisions, an Echo on an unborn child or an X-ray at the airport. This way we want to develop our society.
(10-11-2024) Click on the internetaddress below, scroll down and download the above research EUROPAEM EMF 2016 radiation guidelines:
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(10-11-2024) Click on the internetaddress below, scroll down and download the above research EUROPAEM EMF 2016 radiation guidelines:
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(13-12-2018) 5G dangers, 60GHz millimeter wave micro cell dangers, and stupid, evil elected representatives. The Netherlands Wifi free!
(10-11-2024) Click on the internetaddress below, scroll down and download the above research EUROPAEM EMF 2016 radiation guidelines:
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(13-12-2018) See minute 23:10 2.4 GHerz - The biological window of humans. (13-12-2018) The Netherlands Wifi free! 5G is Genotoxisch. Dat betekent dat er veranderingen plaatsvinden in het genetisch materiaal en het genetisch materiaal zelfs kan oplossen. Onderzoek is gedaan naar kikkererwten, gist en bloemen door Prof. Dr. Ing. K. Meyl. Deze Professor heeft aangetoond dat de golfcode of het biofeld de DNA sequenties bepaald en heeft met zijn eigen apparatuur aangetoond dat eigenschappen van molecuul structuren draadloos overgedragen kunnen worden met scalar golven. Hij waarschuwd ook voor de gevaren van 5G. Bij de magnetron frequenties vind ook de celcommunicatie plaats. Dus magnetron frequenties schaden de celcommunicatie van de mens. Vanaf 2.4 GHerz wordt ons vlees opgewarmd net als in de magnetron. Bij lagere frequenties warmt het vlees ook op echter hoe hoger de frequentie des te sneller de opwarmiing. Bij 2.4 GHz vind celcommunicatie plaats. Artsen behoren te weten waar de energie vandaan komt. Als je dit als arts al niet weet hoe kan je dan je patienten helpen? Als arts sta je dan in de regen. De techniek tegenwoordig houd geen rekening met de gezondheidsaspekten en hier zit momenteel het probleem volgens Prof. Dr. Ing. Meyl. Bij 2.4 GHerz hebben wij WLAN, bluetooth, UMTS. Volledig in het biologische bereik van de mens. Dit mag eigenlijk niet geaccepteerd worden. In het biologische bereik van de mens zijn eigenlijk helemaal geen technische apparaten acceptabel. Het beschadigd iemand. Je kunt die persoon dan later niet de schuld geven dat hij of zij ziek geworden is. PS: ab MInute 25:50 Die Bundesamt fur Strahlenschutz hat die unbedenklichkeitserklärung wieder gestrichen. Siemens hat noch Geld hinterher geschmissen und Nokia ist auch abgehauen. Die Produkthaftung greibt durch nach den Firmen. Die Firmen suchen Sie ein Land wo es noch ein korrupter Beambter gibt die dass unterschreibt. Mann wird immer weniger Lander geben die dass unterschreiben. Das ist die Konsequenz.
(10-11-2024) Click on the internetaddress below, scroll down and download the above researchEUROPAEM EMF 2016 radiation guidelines:
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(13-12-2018) Note: It is not clear if this youtubevideo is true or not. Wie wil er samen met mij in Nederland deze proef gaan herhalen om uit te vinden of de informatie klopt? (Volgens mij moet de mais droog zijn en is dat een voorwaarde om de proef te laten slagen) Wie helpt mij?
(10-11-2024) Click on the internetaddress below, scroll down and download the above researchEUROPAEM EMF 2016 radiation guidelines:
https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Wpah-De-Vries/research.
(13-12-2018) Note: It is not clear if this youtubevideo is true or not. Wie wil er samen met mij in Nederland deze proef gaan herhalen om uit te vinden of de informatie klopt? (Volgens mij moet de mais droog zijn en is dat een voorwaarde om de proef te laten slagen) Wie helpt mij?
(10-11-2024) Click on the internetaddress below, scroll down and download the above researchEUROPAEM EMF 2016 radiation guidelines:
https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Wpah-De-Vries/research.
CHAPTER 23. TEMPORARY CONCLUSIONS.
There is worldwide a lack of knowledge how the wave code(”fine material substance”) interacts with the body(“raw material substance”). At least in the English speaking countries. 1) Is the H(0)-HYPOTHESIS TRUE, FALSE, a PARADOX , a FALLACY or PARADIGM? 2) Is the subject of Telegony being misused by people for their own purpose? ANSWERS: 1) I think the H(0)-HYPOTHESIS is TRUE, a PARADOX and the article (ENCLOSURE 2) probably not a FALLACY (My opinion on date 17-02-2017) It depends I think in which PARADIGM you are in what you will decide what is true. You have to decide for yourself in which PARADIGM you are going to answer the questions now after reading all the information I did present! 2) For sure this sensitive subject of Telegony is being misused by people for their own purpose. This is really sad.
I think I did made a good contribution with my research and think further research is needed to get this subject more clear. The most easy way I think is to contact Dr. Peter Gariaev ( www.wavegenetics.org/en/ ) or ( http://wavegenetics.org/en/contact/ ) to release his data and equipment in English for repeating the experiments by others that can provide massive data in English so it is accesable for all English speaking countries. Probably Dr. Peter Gariaev can give the missing answers I have now and we will find it out in time! Translations will be made in proper and fluent English and provide all the data in English. A Russian-English speaking scientist will help to make this happen. Now there is still a big language barrier in all research fields that is done. English people cannot speak good Russian and Russian people cannot speak good English. When the prove , that the biofield or wave code sets the DNA sequences is delivered with hard scientific English data, the trails can be repeated anytime by any other scientist around this world also the equipment to measure and create biofield can be delivered as well to hospitals and industries all around the world. A handmanual in English and instructions will be included. It is not clear if or when we will be able to accomplish these plans and get good results. This the risk we and the contracttaker now take. The mistakes we make in the translations now or tests we remove later. We are not perfect. This reseach plan is just an example how it can be done. The moment I get new insights I will change earlier information that is presented at this moment. I am just missing knowlegde at the moment and will remove my mistakes in this report hopefully later. (27-11-2018) This reseach got a new impuls and found some very usefull research information from Prof. Dr. Ing. Konstantin Meyl that can bring some solutions. (30/11/2018) Prof. Dr. Konstantin Meyl delivered the prove that the biofield or wave code sets the DNA sequences. He discovered that information can be transferred without physical contact with scalar waves or longitudinal waves. See CHAPTER 17.
(27-06-2019) The Internet links of the publications of Prof. Dr. Ing. Meyl you can find here:
Meyl, C., Prof., Dr., Ing.,
& Schnabl, H., Prof, Dr, 2014, Biological signals transmitted by longitudinal waves influencing the growth of plants. Retrieved from
https://www.k-meyl.de/.../Primaerl.../ABBE14_proceedings.pdf
Meyl, K. Prof., Dr., Ing., Drug effects in yeast mediated by scalar waves. 2014. Retrieved from https://www.k-meyl.de/.../Primaer.../discovery-md_083002.pdf
Schnabl H and Meyl K, 2018, Longitudinal magnetic waves trigger higher ATP-levels and extend the aging process of plants. Retrieved from
https://www.researchgate.net/.../331069292.../download
(06-12-2018) CHAPTER 24. END CONCLUSIONS
Conclusions by W.P.A.H. de Vries:
1.The biofield or wave code sets the DNA sequences in every living being on earth.
2. The H(0)-HYPOTHESIS is proven correct, not a PARADOX, a FALLACY. The H(0)-HYPOTHESIS
is proven by transferring information by scalar waves in experiments in peas, yeast and
plants without physical contact that can be repeated by any other scientist and gave
new insights to the current dominant Biomedical PARADIGM that could not explain this
phenomenon with biochemical mechanisms. Prof. Dr. Ing. K. Meyl delivered the missing
link I had in my reseach. Also Dr. Peter Gariaev came to the same conclusions. About his
equipment I cannot say much and do not know exactly how his technology works!
3. Of couse this sensitve subject of Telegony is being misused by people for their own
purpose. This is sad. A lot of people are not like that. I did not research this in this
document.
4. The effect of some corporealmolecule structures can be transmitted over greater
distances by means of electric and magnetic fields. Also it can be transmitted over small
distances.
5. Scalar waves or longitudinal waves (the wave code) are responsible for the
(17-07-2019) Prof. Wannie Carstens. De moedertaal van het Afrikaans is het 17e eeuws Hollands. In 1652 Hollanders vestigden zich op de Kaap. In 1814 de Engelsen hebben op de Kaap de macht overgenomen. De statenvertaling van de bijbel in 1637 uit het Nederlands was op een gegeven moment niet goed meer toegangkelijk door de Afrikaners. Officieel was Nederlands de taal tot 1961 samen met het Engels in Zuid Afrika. Tot 1994 waren Engels en Afrikaans de officiele talen in Zuid Afrika. Vanaf 1994 staat het Afrikaans onder druk i.v.m. de politieke situatie in Zuid Afrika. OP het moment dat er een oplossing komt voor de huidige politieke problemen in Zuid Afrika kan ook het Afrikaans overleven.
(22-01-2024) It does not matter when your life is perfect and have everything. The better you treat a woman she will lose genuine desire she once had for you. Women crave men who creates tension and uncertainty. Women likes to emotionally fix situations. So she needs you to brake something. So she feels she is needed. This is the only way hypergamy is satisfied. No tension means boring. You were stable but she act if you did something wrong and starts drama. She views you you cannot attract other women and she starts looking for someone else and leaves the relation. Women are naturally nurturing. Things like status, career, wealth, physical appearence only gets you a foot in the door. When you create arousal and desire she will stay. When you give her certainty she leaves. Uncertainty creates arousal and desire. You have satified hyergamy. When you signaling you do not want to commit her desire goes up. Hypergamy is a feeling. She thinks you have a higher value then her. This is how you keep attraction. You can pull back when you have options, this is how a woman falls in love. She wants to prove to herself th she is good enough, she has your approval, she is wife material, you really like her. The moment she knows this, she will leave you and find someone else. Therefor never attach to a woman or try to built something with a woman. It is the womans job to built something with you. You are supposed to be the one with competence, with vision and purpose, with resource and a good financial situation, smart, strong and capable. She is the one she needs to lock down. Do not give every thing away for free, she has to compete for it. Once you got selected by other woman you got the stamp of approval and hypergamy is satisfied. It has nothing to do with income, how you are in shape etc etc. Women want what other women want. She sees a future with you when you have everything. You will get the shy and good girl version. Therefor conceil everthing about your status, sexual market value, intent. When she all knows this she withhold sex from you. This way you are ahead in the dating game. She has to chase you now and figure out page by page. When you tell all of this on the first date, you are screwed. She is going to withhold that genuine burning desire for a long term relation. You cannot have your cake and eat it too. When you want her best sex do not go with her in a long term relation. You can not be the guy she wants to sleep with and the guy she wants to date with. Once the bad boy commits she is no longer the bad boy to her.
(24-01-2024) Women often display fake innocence to obtain male validation and male approval. This is hard to spot because the more feminine a woman is often the harder the tests for men are. The guard of a high value man can drop and as soon as his guard drops, the frame has been lowered, you lose the psychological perceived value in that womans eyes. Women display fake innocence to prove to herself she can drop your guard. A woman is looking for reasons to disqualify you. This means she is looking for reasons to redraw, to pull back sex, to disolve the relation. Why would she wants this to do? High value in the eyes of a woman is not the same as high value in the eyes of a man. For her it is: can he stand up to me, is he consistently who he says he is, is he able to lead me. is he able not fall for my bullshit. Women are looking at the internal and not the status driven things. She falls in love with the internal. Dropping your guard is failing the tests. Women do this to optimize hypergamy. When you soften, she will pull back 100% of the time, she starts to be more rude,, more cold, more masculine, bitchy. You as a man think she likes you for who you are, this is why this is so deadly. When the mistery is over the woman exits. Her whole goal is to gain male validation and male approval. When you give this, this is a loss in atraction and pull back. She wants to wake up every single day that she is good enough, since she is seeking this approval. This is why she only desires men who do not make her feel that way. She cannot gain that full approval, she views him as a high value men and views him as strong and alpha. This has nothing to do with your bankaccount, amount of instagram followers. They fall for the internal strength far quicker than the external image. She must view you as a powerful man. Confidence is a form of power. When you are not confident she will not view you as a strong fit for her. Power is you have some sort of life control, over your emotions, control over your own life and destiny. Power is not your musclemass, your benchpress, amount of money, social status, the house you live in or your zip code. Power is the ability to live life on your own terms, to act the way you want and nobody hold anything over you. Powerful men have full control over their life. The second you assume power, you can move mountains. This what women start to fall in love with. Where do men go wrong? When they get a woman who is very attractive, a 8,9,10 to them and displays the right kind of femininety characteristics and displays the right innocence characteristics, she seems super warm, bubly, she appears she can do no harm, here is where men go wrong: they start to believe this woman is different, she can never test in the way I have seen in the past, become bitchy. The frame the woman did put in front of a man let the man believe she is different. Women are masters in conceiling their intention. Believing her words will always mislead you. Women are indirect with their intent. These are the shades of grey. An example: When you ask a woman what is wrong?, she will say: "nothing, why you think something is wrong? The hotter the woman is the harder it is to pass the tests. When she is rude, overtly dislaying issues or bad behaviour to you you can easily spot this and walk away from them. You are with these women and will not even know you are tested. She is using her beauty and sexappeal to slowly to read your body language., vocal tone and nuances. to pull things out you normally do not do. When she sees for example a facial expression she knows she has power over you. There is no endpoint to this, there are just new levels to the game. She constantly asks herself, is this man the real deal? or is he insecure? For example she askes why does he needs all this money? She tests the guts of a man. When you are strong on the inside, she will fall in love. She sits quietly, very sweet and wants you to talk and uncover you at a quicker rate. You did fall for the trap, you did let your guard down. This is a test of your identity and imposible to recover from. The second she has figured you out is exact the moment she left you.
(24-01-2024) Majority of woman are all looking for a maintenance man in the bedroom. Woman know the degree which men are uncomfortable hearing the truth, therefor what woman often do is conceil this and her intentions 24/7. So men go datinSg not understanding what men actually want. She needs a maintenance man in the bedroom she can call when she needs it. The biggest fear of a woman is sleeping with a guy who she thought was strong.She thought you had emotional resiliance, you did not get attached and had a lot of options but actually are emotionally weak. Her emotions and her overies feel tricked. She assumed you are stronger than her, this is why they are so angry with you and dissapointed not on themselves but on the guy. She assumed she needs more communication than you, she thought you are the man and the bad boy rebel she has to chase. She assumed she catched feelings far before you did or did not catch feelings at all and be a rock. You have now revealed your sexual market value. She starts now looking down on you. Any weakness to a woman is a turn off. That means any ounce of attachment, neediness, any ounce of overcommunication. You are sending signals, you are not used to dating women at my level. Woman are sensitive to words, frames of value, status matrixs, to the potential options that a man has or is willing to exercise. that once you do not demonstrate the right frames of value she is going to close of to you. The second a man pushes for more time with her, more commitment, a relationship she will redraw. It is not in a mans nature to push for a relationship. When you put all your cards on the table the mystery is over. Women literaly see their world through words and are very word sensitive. It is uncomfortable for man to actually accept what women want and crave for and women know this and therefor conceil it. 3-5% of the men knows this and are sexual rewarded. The rest, 97% has no acces to women. Women want you to believe they are beautiful and can do no harm. A woman do not want you to go weak for her beauty. She want to have a guy to sleep with, she calls and text her on her own time, he doesnot corner her into a relationship, he does not need to kiss and cudlle.When it is time to go home she says goodbye. She can built with such a man. These are the right elements of masculinety. When a woman wants something more with you she will let you know. She will switch from covert communication(that is hiding things) to overcommunication. Just like you had to flirt and tease, just to engage in the landscape of the feminine. When she is at this breaking point from covert to overcommunication which mean getting to business. She is now engaging in her language in the land of the masculine. She is asking staightup, where is this going? Do you see a future with me? When she is really at her breaking point she ask you do you want to be my boyfriend? You have now won. You are the man. The only thing you have to do is built your external world, built your muscle maas, bankaccount, built your social circle, built your status, your network. your resilience. built who you are. There are so many hot women that are single, you just have to crack the code. They cannot find a guy that gets it. It is not her fault she exist or pull away, it is her biology, when she senses weakness she exits. A womans sensitivity to words and how words dictates her emotions and is important how she views her world and is totally different than the world of a man.
(25-01-2024) Women are more loyal to men who cheat rather then men who are commited because when you are commited she views you as weak. This is not socialy accepted but she sees you as a succesful risk taker. A attractive woman can find a monogamous man everywhere. To master relationsships you have to master inverted thinking(you think the opposite most people do). Women wil sexually reward: 1) risk takers 2) men with little to no empathy 3)unpredictablility and bad behaviour. 3) mens with toxic and volatile traits. 4) men who operate with a flexible morality to suit their own pleasure. She sees life to a different lens then you. A man operates out of logic. 1+1=2. This is totaly wrong how a woman sees the world. She thinks your loyalty shows me lack of options. Your care shows you are operating in your feminine energy. Your monogamous commitment is secretly despised. This is uncomfortable for a man. A woman give their sexual best or sexual loyalty to men who are not even dating them. as well as men who are not even commited to them. Hypergamy means she does not want loads of options, she wants the biggest, badest strongest cock. When she has 100 messages in her inbox she wants the man at the top, she views as the strongest. This is the guy is often who is not commiting to her, sleeping with other women, willing to exercise other options despite how other people view that. To her this is a succesfull risk taker, he operates on his own terms. She rather takes a gamble to see how it plays out than be with a guy who is predictable. She thinks maybe I am special or convince him. Hypergamy is now satisfied. This go so deep to the frames of values and verbal plays. Verbal psychological frames of values that a man is willing to demonstrate. The male brain works totally different. A guy thinks when he is loyal, care and have love to a woman his loyalty, care and love will be reciprocated, this is wrong. The more you invest in women, the less you get out. They fundamentaly do not care the same way as you do. Women will never appreciate the things you do for them. How to deal with this as a man? You have to inject frames right away. The moment a woman knows her spot is permanently secured now she sees you are really sold on her and hypergamy is now going to question, is this the best I can get? and often exits. So never under any circumstances let her feel her spot is secured. The more she knows you love her, the more she exits. For example in the beginning say:"enjoy the moment because all good things come to an end". She thinks he does not see a future with me. This is creating arousal with her, why am I not good enough? or ""you can never be my woman because I will end up cheating"". She psychology thinks now: 1) He is a challenge 2) he is preselective. 3) must have a lot of options 4) this guy clearly get sex and all the other woman are after him so I might as well after him too. 5) he is not needy and clearly in abundance. This is the type of guy I want. Her subconscious and emotion will override her logic. So this is going to raise her attraction. The majority of woman are actually turned on when the man they are with is excercising his options or sleeping with other women. Any emotion is better then none, she rides you harder, act sweeter, appreciate you more, she knows that your time means something. When you are a man in demand your time means something. Her primal brain feels safer with you in a relation than you are commited to her. Her primal brain says, he is a man in demand, he has others approval. even other woman wants his genes when sleeping with him and turn her on. Women only trust other womans opinion. When other woman is after another mans man this is her higest opinion. She feels safer now. it looks like you have experience, ther must be something about you, the type of guy choosen by others. What is it about him why he is so attractive? His bankaccount? bedroom? charismatic? known for something? This is why woman are loyal to men who cheat and exercise their options.
(25-01-2024) Women will make good men wait to sleep with them and withold intimacy. Textbook "high value men" and their traits will be punished by women. Why they do this? It is to give false illusions of purity. She wants you to think she is a good girl and hasn''t been with anybody else. The narrative sold to men, when you make lots of money, become good looking, have a big house, you will be able to atract all these beautiful women. This is not how it works. Now suddenly you are boyfriend material and want you for the long run and not someone she slept with after 20 minutes she met in the bar. She thinks he will be a great dad one day. In that house she can see herself laying on that coutch. When dating a woman is hoping you do not have a woman and that you are naive. She is going to claim celebacy and act innocent and this is her first time in this sort of experience, she is going to fool you she is different. The reason why this is so important is because all of these things like a house, status etc do not trigger arousel. The reason is that women are led by their emotions and emotions are only facilitated through words. How you make somebody feel through the vocal tone of your voice and how you project and carry yourself. This is how you influence them. The frustration of modern men is: you need to chase looks,(max your muscle mass), chase money, chase status, chase influence, chase strenght. This all of this is not what women fall for. Woman are keen for personality trades and tone. The subconscious of a women is now triggerd and she askes herself: is he compensating? is he insecure? why does he need all of that muscle mass? is he weak internally? You will get more interest tests, shit tests because they want you for the long run. When you have nothing her expectations are less. Self improvement implies to a woman that your current self is not good enough. you have weakness on the inside and try to overcome, you do not feel good enough and need all that work. These things trigger her brain, weak behaviour, weak tonality, weak body language, does not fit in socially. Therefor self improvement only has to be for you. External you are strong but internally she thinks you are weak. Now she wants you to view you differently. Now she wants you to view differently, she wants to be your girlfriend or wife material. Now she want to be loved and respected when actually she never cared about those things. Those men who are frustrated have a severe deficit when it comes to dating. 1) They have a small social circle or no friends. 2) Men who have never partied. 3) Men who refuse to go out of the house and interact. You learn more about women in 1) bar game. 2) house parties. 3) building a big social circle. You can see how womens behaviour in the real world and mostly the experience from 18 til 23. When a woman crushes on a guy in this setting this is the truest form of personality and genuine desire. It is about the vocal tone, the other people where she categorize you. She doesn not know what you are doing so the social norm is dictating if she is attracted or not. Saying that women are guided by their emotions is even an understatement. 1) When she goes girl mode with a guy it is all emotion, nothing is logic. 2) For them it is all words. 3) Your words and how you make her feel is all that she goes of with to decide for herself if you are preselected, if you have social status, if you have popularity, or if you are accepted by other people. She wants to know that you are cool. Your bank balance
(does not feel her a certain way. So a womens sensitivity to words is everything.These are the men they sleep with.. Women only know what you put in front of them. It is all words. It is all psycholical frames of value. A man has to self improve to see women do not give a fuck.A woman falls in love with the internal.All women behave the same.
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(25-01-2024) The only question a woman asks 24/7 for herself "is: is he weak (for me) yet?'' Is he attached to me yet which repulses her and cannot be turned on anymore. They dispice that kind of energy and they will exit when you cannot walk away. On an evolutionary level you are a bad bed for her survival, it is her biology, she cannot even control it. That attachment signals emotional weakness and signals that you are not strong enough to protect her and therefor she exits. Holding hands is dropping your frame. and getting weaker and weaker. As a man you have to remove all sexual desire. Any hint of going boring or routine she sees as commitment level, for example all your routines at work and home. When the commitment level is exposed now the games begin and means mood changes, sex withholding. You have to always avoid running routine. More time spent with her will bring you not more loyalty. More time spent decreases her arousal. When this decrease she start looking for new men. You need to remove the desire for all unconditional love. How does a woman get the power over me? They do this with their biggest powerplay is to withhold sex to obtain male compliance. That means getting you things to do you do not want to do. Fotos to look as a cute couple. You spent more time doing things you have no interest in. This is the fastes way to prove to herself that he is not the higest value fit. They are looking for reasons to say no to you. looking for reasons not to sleep with you and then go to the next one. The disconnect in your brain start to happen when this happens. When you were not commiting in a relationship you were sleeping with her all the time. The reason for this that she understand through sex you will fall in love with her and obtain your compliance slowly. Most men do not know when you do those things it decreases her desire. It is as almost punished for good behaviour. What makes logical sense how a womans attraction is supposed to work will never make emotional sense in her heart. It is an inverse relationship. Women will leverage sex to obtain compliance. The intemacy is decreasing, arousal is decreasing, she is less interested despice the time more spent. Now he is trying extra hard to built a relationship and you are going to notice worse behaviour etc etc. Now you make even more time to see her. You make her more of a priority by now she has zero desire. On a fundamental level she said no to you on the personality level. You have to become the game, to become a new individual, a more masculine version of yourself. She wants you purposely get reactive and chase her validation. She will claim she wants more of your time and gets it. You always say yes, yes, yes, yes and thinks you are rewarded and now she turns on you. She claims you are to controling. and want a girls vacation and girl stripper. You say yes and sometimes you even pay for it. She only can go wet for you when you can say no. No because I said so. It shows backbone. Women silently begging you to say no. A dad tradionally says no. An authority figure should say no and is extremely attracting to a woman. It shows not only he is respected but also people trust his judgement. When your are dating a woman you have to become that sort of achetype. This goes beyond flirting. When you are in an emotionally reactive state they try to emasculate you though her vocal tone manipulation, that means she going to be short with you, rude. act disinterested, sound like a brad. When you are at this point arguments start and fail that test. Your high interest has led to this all. Tho only way to handle this is become unpredictable. For example go out with your friend or come late back at home. This is satisfying hypergamy. It means he still has frame and backbone and show she is not priority level number one. She needs to be having sex more than you. You make her earn for you. These are the things woman looking for. The overall essence of masculine stability. She will not leave you easily because you are hard to replace. This not her fault, it is just how they are wired and operate. She is optimising for the strongest, the amount and time and history with a woman holds no weight. The second you stop displaying the strength characteristics she is looking for she will exit. This is how it works.
(27-01-2024) Women only fall in love when feeling inadequate to the man she craves approval from - cheat code. This inadequacy does one specific thing. This causes them to engage deeper into their emotions. What happens is that she fall in love in a quicker page. This is important to understand because chasing succes, self improvement, money, status etc does not feel a woman anything on the inside. It is good that they never feel good enough for you because now they try extra hard, they now want to be extra nice., extra pleasing. This is good because you have now some of the leverage. Women do not feel feminine unless they are pleasing a man and will feel happy with that. A woman that is fully is validated with your approval becomes rude, look down on you, and is going to crave the sex from another guy. It is in her nature to please you so you must act accordingly. Woman are all psychological and who they fall in love with is based on emotions and which guys says the right words to them. To a woman things that are hard to obtain seems more valuable even if they actually are not. When you are not hard to get she litterally despice you. She will ask herself, can I do better? She will open up her options very shortly after that and makes her gravitate to other men who seem superior to you and ruin the idea of love she had for you. When you put her on a pedestal she is gone even other things were great and she thinks damn I lost another one. When you are with a woman, you are never serious and logical, your in a vibe, chill, playing pretend and is an escape of her current reality. Tease her, make remarks. The moment you are serious, logical for example talking about your work, she is out and not fun and has figured you out. The reason for this is she plays pretend the whole time. She is sitting laughing, flirting and giggling. That emotion makes her more aroused and gravitates towards you. You want to be the guy they can never fully posses and fully never lockdown. Women fantasises sexually about all different types of men besides the guy they are with. Once she posses you, her feelings slowly change. Female fantasy is based of on what they do not have or what they cannot have and is not real. That is why it is important to not talk about real world topics because the second you do that you have the risk to become logical and become boring. In the world you met is one of fantasy, she enjoys your presence. This is extremely important.
(27-01-2024) Men have literally all the power in a relationship with a woman and a woman does not want you to know this. The reason is if you think about it at a deep level and want that hot woman and feel powerless it is because of the sex, your lust, your craving. the desire. Woman are not trying to learn how to keep you. Women do not care. if they have you or not because the sex is what is controlling you. Men have all of the power. in relationships The first reason is that all women follow what men reward. When you reward promiscuity women will follow. Men lead and women follow. All women follow what men reward. Men sit there mute, she wants you to hear you talk what traits you want in a women. Women do not care about the money, they crave attention. Why do they crave attention? Because deep down they know you have all the power. A mans approval is ultimately is what they are seeking. The problem with this is that the high status men, that have the status, money, do something in the world that has recognition, these men fall for temptation too. A woman continues to do what they are rewarded for. The second reason men do not realize we set the tone, we have the power. This not what she does not want you to know, what women want you to know. The majority of men with followers or cloud, status, recognition who backlash female promiscuity these are the first ones to sleep with hot women. It signals to her, he is not strong and has no boundries, has frame, solid in his identity but is flexible, who can change. We say we want virgin brides but refuse to be stronger than temptation. To put it in the simplest words, a woman is not able to be a whore unless there is a man willing to sleep with her. Men are not sexually disciplined, we have given away our power. When you are single now, 100% of the women you had sex with in the past, you are not with that woman now. It means you were disapointed or she was dissapointed. Is it hypergamy or is it the option to do good or bad? When you add complexity to it, the hope is that both people look after eachother.
(16-11-2023)The repentence of king David with his mistake with Batsheva did put him in another realm, Gods realm.
(17-11-2023)Tell woman what kind of relation you want with her, it is not about sex or her beauty..
(18-11-2023) .The emotional connection is missing when things go wrong for man and woman by monetizing sex and often abuse and violence happened in their youth. An escort is in essence a porn addict with money. A man who has no emotional intelligence will go to an escort and just want pleasure will not think of the emotional trauma of the woman.
(20-11-2023) You can not have a standard for a woman when you do not have a standard for yourself. It is the job of a man to have a standard, the woman will naturally follow in this.
(20-11-2023) Self care is one of the most important parts of being healthy.
(20-11-2023) Implement the stoic philosophy in your life can be a good idea. The aim is to cultivate conections based on mutual respect. By finding this equilibrium in communication you establish an environment where both parties are equally commited to the relationship fostering a more health and balanced connection. The summary of this video is: 1. Don’t reveal everything.2. Create a fear of losing you. 3. Create your own happiness. 4. Be costly and let them invest in you.5. Don’t make them the center of your life. 6. Priorities your own needs first 7. Don’t be always available 8. Stop starting the conversation all the time. 9. Don’t be emotionally attached too much. 10. Be willing to walk away from them.
(20-11-2023) According Marcus Aurelius the act of nature aimed to the continuation of the species, they do not see it mere as a social convention but as an integral part of cosmic harmony and the natural order of things. What does not benefit the hive it does not benefit the bee.
(20-11-2023) On the path to authentic love, self reflection is fundamental, looking inward. In the words of Marcus Aurelius put your heart, mind and soul in even the smalest acts. This is the secret to succes. Enjoy the peace that follows self reflection, it is not just work, it is the path to inner peace and more authentic relations. Self acceptance from a stoic perspective, self acceptance becomss the pillar of inner tranquility. Self acceptance according to the soics is the act of embracing who we are with all our virtues and flaws, it is freeing oneself from the need for external validation and finding peace and self acceptance in a world obsessed with comparison and constant persuit of more. True weatlh is not found in being validated and accepted by others or in material possesions. True wealth lies in being content with our authenticity and living in harmony with ourselves. By acceptiong ourselves we release the emotional burden of external validation. This is the essence why you should not persuit love but seek self acceptance before seeking external acceptance. Self acceptance is not a denial of personal improvement but a solid foundation for it. Marcus Aurelius said that true happiness is to enjoy the present moment without anxious depence of the future. Independence and essential value in stoic reflections is crucial in the persuit of authentic love. From a stoic and masculine perspective independence is a display of strenght and self control as Scenica said true freedom is the independence of the mind. Meditation becomes a powerful tool to maintain emotional independence from a stoic and masculine perspective. Mindfullness is another crucial practice in the persuit of authentic love.from a stoic perspective. Mindfullnes allows us to maintain emotional independence by being fully present in our relationships. Mindfulness involves active listening, being present in conversations and being aware of our emotional reactions. Marcus Aurelius reminds us that self control is archieved by mindfulness.
(19-11-2023) She forgets about the element hypergamy which is explained earlier by Casey Zander. It seems to me she does not understand herself at all and other women as welll but for the rest she is explaining some things well for example: A women needs to come in the mans world and not around she explains. and nothing fancy is needed.
(19-11-2023) When a woman does not see your value just move on, do not invest in her or chase her.
(20-11-2023) Marcus Aurelius said: You have power over your mind, not outside events., realize and find strength.
(20-11-2023) 1. Don't speak ill of yourself. Never engage in self deprication 2. Don't boast about self improvement (humility and description) let action be the testament of your improvement 3. Don't be a glutton musonious: stop excessive indulgence. Moderation is key.4. Don't be a big mouth : Listen more than you speak. 5. Don't be too focused on the future: to be happy, be mindful of your present.6. Don't be ungrateful: practicing gratitude is the way of acknowledging the positive aspects of life 7. Avoid complaining for a happier life: complaining tends to bring negative around our lives and the lives of others. Our happiness depends on our perception. Complaining is an unreproductive cycle, it creates a sense of victimhood.
(21-11-2023) All she is judging you on is your words, how this words make her feel and social value. Your social value is conveyed through your body language and how you sound when you talk, through the social skills of the thoughts, feellings that you can put into other people as you are around them. This is what the woman is viewing.
(21-11-2023) Stoicism teaches that the ultimate good resides in the quality in our own character and actions, things that are in our control. By emphazing self mastery and internal virues stoicism frees us from the disquieting dance of desire and aversion linked of what others think of us. When your worht is defined by your virtue and integrity than it stands uneffected by the fluctuating opinious of others around you, you become like a fortress, strong impervious to the external assaults of disapproval or the false flattery of praise.
(23-11-2023) It all comes down to survival, safety. Therefor caring about a woman is turn off for woman instead of survival of himself first. Women want a man who is safe. A woman falls in love with the internal personality trades, the character of the man, the masculinity. You only attract women when you detach for the need for female companionship. Every single man who needs, craves, want or desire female compagnionship will never get it and it is because you are putting your time in the wrong area.
(23-11-2023) Stay in the present to overcome any hard day. You have power over your mind not outside events.
(28-11-2023) There exist individuals who derive satisfaction of the misfortune of others. This behaviour goes beyond mere malice, it reflects a deeper psychologcal imbalance in a contemporary landscape where succes and prosperity are sometimes viewed with suspision. The act of finding joy and others strugles becomes a pervasive issue. This phenomenon underscore the pressing need to shiild oneself from such negative influence. At the heart of this discussion lies the recognition that certain individuals driven by their unbalanced psyche actively seek a sense of superiority over others through chaos and suffering. The troubeling implication is that in the face of succes or archievement some find solace in ridiculing those who openly grable with challenges particularly in the realm of mental health. The social narative often places material succes on a pedestal overshadowin the intrisic value of emotional well being. It is wise to protect you against this. Seek support in environment that supports mental health.
(01-12-2023) Stop arguing what a good man should be. Be one. (Marcus Aurelius) Marcus Aurelius was emperor from 161 - 180 AD. The soics said to archieve happiness you should live a live of virue, there is no other way to get there, there are no shortcuts. You should continue to better yourself and become all that you possibly can, a complete human being, a friend of god.
(03-12-2023) Woman take they don't give. A man has his live and a women enter his life that she wants to join. Women are not wired to give and accept it. Hypergamy is their hardwire. Casey Zander thinks sex validates women.
(04-12-2023) It takes real human interaction to meet a woman, at least say hello or hi, so she can hear your voice. A man has to be active, a woman is the polarity of that which is passive. Get what you want in live, say what you want.
(05-12-2023) When a woman aproaches you she thinks your sexual market value is above hers.The big illusion. Woman are status driven. The woman is comparing you with other man. High value is a perception to a woman. When responding to quick and making some mistakes you can go from a 10 to a 6 in her view. Respond slow just as woman do as they are in a state of abundance. Respond alway on your own time She is trying to get a read on where you stand.
(06-12-2023) A strong body is a strong mind, strenght, safety and security. You need drive for survival. Ambition means you have goals and is internal. You do it regardless how you feel. These are all traits a woman is attracted to.
(08-12-2023) Conclusion: men and women mostly cannot be friends, of course there are exeptions on that rule as always.
(10-12-2023) As seneca stated: virtue is the best strategy for vice. According to stoicism it is crucial to daily practice vitue. Striving to become more rational, serene and gradually relinquishing vices.
(12-12-2023) Just say no to a woman. Amplify your power.
(13-12-2023) Friendship is like a diamond, there are not many diamonds and a lot of fakes.
(13-12-2023) Being selfish with a mans own desires is what a man has to internalize, this is masculine and turns women on. You built what you want to become.
(13-12-2023) Most young woman want to be in the submissive and passive position when she sees you as a sexual candidate and in order to have sex. If this lacks she will not have sex and is not turned on.
(15-12-2023) The pul of the vortex for women. She is attracted to domination, ownership, control, aggression, safety, protection. This turns a woman on. In the vortex a woman is weak. She is trying to hide this at all cost and has no boundries when she is in the vortex. So before this happens she thinks do I want to be in his vortex. When she do not want to be in his vortex she pushes him away.
(15-12-2023) This woman tells 6 things what she finds attractive in her boyfriend.
(15-12-2023) According this woman, a woman has a normal brain and a sex brain, like a wheel that can turn. In her sex brain or primal brain of a woman likes dominance and submission according this woman.
(17-12-2023) The runway to peak arousal of a woman needs a smooth pathway, runway or built up according this woman.
(17-12-2023) Being yourself on datingapps is not wise according this woman. The casual matrix and the relationship matrix are two concepts in this. Male sexuality is the casual matrix and female sexuality is the female matrix. A man that wants to have casual sex with as many women as possible and keep the options open for other women in the future. Female sexuality is looking for a relationship with the right guy. and you are always keeping your options open waiting for the right guy forming a deep connection with you, fall deeply in love with you, persue you and claim you. Casual sex for men is like I want your sex for free but I do not want to do anything with you like a sexworker but then for free. Women do not like this attitude mostly. and think they are stupid and hate them for that.
(17-12-2023) Only sexual market value is deciding when she chooses you. When you have a higher sexual market value she falls in love with you. She even cannot control her attraction to you. For woman this is the same as with men. Thats it. This is totally different than society wants you to believe. It is about internal high value of a man. When you live your life as you want and you are 100% selfconfident (when you do not give a fuck) that is what a woman sees and attracted to. A woman looks at the internal of a man, the guts of a man. You have to be in the present to connect with the woman, talk slower. When you are having a drink, enjoy the drink. When you have sex with a woman, she has all the power, so do not worry about that, when you talk with her, she wants to have sex with you, she ends up to seduce you. This is the greates signal to hypergamy. Imagine how stoic you are in your lustful feelings. Now she finally feels safe. Stop overqualifing with building the external but the internal and give your internal peace. You are ok with who you are and that means you are ok with everything. This is the only life you have. Woman fall in love through words. When you can connect the masculine and the feminin and you connect with her that is when you get a woman attached.
(19-12-2023) Focus on logic, supres the influence of sentimentality, embrace reciproxity and decisively choose a partner motivated not only by their esthetics but above all by the integrity and nobility of their intrinsic character. The goal is metamorphasis that wiil elevate you to the status of a nuclear star at the center of your emotional solar system. Radiate the magnetism that attacts followers that orbit you like stars in a predeterment orbit.
(21-12-2023) Women are turned off when you show any kind of clingingness, any sense of attachment or that you really love her. It is not in a mans nature to nurture a relation, the moment you do this you are stepping into your feminine energy. Woman are attracted to men who are emotional unavailable, who are disinterested in them and do not give them a lot of attention. Women are only attacted to men who have no need for intimate touch(this is why lust will often make you very weak) and live life on their own terms with or without her. This is an attractive man for a woman. When man is not attached to her even if his carreerpath is not so good and does not have a lot of money a woman percievers such a man as a man with a higher sexual market value then her and is attracted to him. Even when he is broke but in motion, such a man is a good bet for her survival. Internal selfconfidence are masculine traits and a man does not need a woman for that. Women only truly like men who do not fully like them back. The more you like her, the less she likes you. You cannot control where you are attracted to and neither does she.
(23-12-2023) According this women there are three common paterns (or kinks) of female sexuality which are very primal are: 1) provocing men and put into place (it is a test). 2) submission(with consent rape play and is for strong women, it is hughe in romance novels) 3) Unconditional love like a deep emotional connection with nurturing, healing and the caretaking. Women are drown to these fantasies not knowing even why. They wait for a guy to lead and accept submissively.
(23-12-2023) According this women for many women the examination kink for a woman is important and is one of the main ways for a woman to feel sexy and feminine. She needs the male geeze which makes them seen, beauritul, sexy, admired and allows her true sexuality and blossom. She needs a man looking at her with male appreciation and lust. It actually is extreme important and never underestimate this power in yourself when you are a man. It is the power a man has to give her your look and the energy that comes through that look that she needs that is just raw appreciation for women which most straight men naturally have. When it comes to sex it is not creepy and you do not need to supress it. Women have a lot of shame for their bodies whether it is good enough. As a man only give a possitive comment else she will be destroyed. Be the observer of her art, that is what she want and want to be appreciated. Always look at her and about the parts of a woman she do not like, say it is beautiful and the fear of the women goes away. Women crave the examination test of men, Men have all the power in this. They need a masculine watcher that appreciate the female body. All guys do have this.
(23-12-2023) In a conversation you need to focus also on the undercurrent, the metalevel is making the girl feel hot, attractive, like you desire her. 1) You need to make comments on her appearence or certain thing of her appearance. It will turn up the chemistry. You are talking about sex, romance, passion indirectly but that is what it is all about. It is about evaluate her and compliment her and create a feeling of desire.That is what girls want. 2) A (hand) touch. 3) Always ask a girl if you want to see at my place. He is not scared for rejection. 4) When she is at your place, try to kiss her. She wants you to make the move. Just try. 5). When you are in bed with her. Do not try to rush thing for your pleasure. It is a mutual thing. Be in the moment and enjoy. Compliment the girls. These are some of the mistakes guys make.
(23-12-2023) The zeven things to keep private are: 1) Your future plans and goals. 2) Your past misfortunes. 3 opinions and judgements. 4) Your financial situation. 5) Your relationship. 6) Stop complaining. 7) Stop being a big mouth.
(23-12-2023) When you like a woman more then she does she loses interest in you because she thinks her sexual market value is higher than you and she thinks she is better than you and is looking to replace you.. This is hypergamy, she wants to marry up and is in her nature. The less you try to win her over the more they want you. The attraction from a woman to a man consist out mainly two things: 1)women like men with influence. 2) women like men with social status. That's it. It means in the brain of a woman when you put a lot of effort in a woman she thinks, he must have a low status. The more you try, the less she likes yoo. It is not their fault. Women cannot control what they are attracted to., it just happened. A man can also not control where he is attracted to. It is your hardwire. A woman wants a man in motion. When you push forward in life and persuing your goals this should give you more options. Men can built value in time. This allows him not to be needy and keep in his masculine energy.
(30-12-2023) When a women dumps you, just say "okay" and move on, do not ask why, show strength and improve yourself.
(31-12-2023) When a woman sees you are getting feelings for her, she thinks 1) she is your best option and is a big turn off for her. She feels to good for you and is looking for a better man and hypergamy is not satisfied.2) This woman thinks you are emotionally weak and therefor cannot protect her. A woman wants a man with stability especially in the long run both internally and externally. You are like a rock. 3) She now assumes other woman are not into you. Do not initiate physical contact with a woman but you can reciprocate.. When a woman initiate first contact a man is not turned of, when a woman does she is turn off. This is the dynamic the way it should be. When this is not happening, she senses low status, low value.. She naturally distance herself to see that days without communication changes your emotional status, this is the ultimate test to see how engaged you are and emotionally weak for her yet. This is the test to see how strong you are emotionally and if he is on his purpose or not. The moment distance changes your emotional state, she wants you exit. She does not want to be your number one priority. She wants to see you focussed, driven, having a life of abundance,,fun, excelence outside that relationship. So this is a big test your sexual market value. When a woman sees that you are nervous to call out expectations in a relation that you do not like she sees that you went weak for her beauty and means he has no backbone, he lost his way in the relationship to lead that woman and will not trust your masculiniy and sees you cannot walk away. The only way that a woman consistantly respect you is if she knows that you will leave. That's it. This is the masculine-feminine dynamic. This is a healthy relationship.
(31-12-2023) Any form of attachment is a turn off for women. Internally she cannot control her own atraction and what turns her off, this is hardwire. Accept these truths. When you are attached to her she views her negatively and become a liability to her, she wants to get rid of you and hope to find a better replacement. That better replacement is she is hoping is more competent, stronger, smarter and a better fit. Women only respect strenght. Strength in hunting-gathering times equals a man can have zero weakness. The second she senses weakness watch her flip on you She will give you interest tests, when you follow her, she will leave. You have to stay emotional stable. When you do this you will win, also in other areas in life. You will become powerful. When you become weak for her beauty, you will become a walking liability. She needs to see strenght. Do not believe the false beliefs. When you become strong you elevate your status and respekt. It is her job to pull you of center. Her job 24/7 is to optimize survival. The deeper your emotional connection is the less she likes you. When you are centered 24/7, stay on your purpuse, take care of you body, you make money, you take the right decicion, you do not get emotionally attached, she says that is my man, that is my husband. That is the guy worth competing for. That is the guy I want to invest time, energy and love in. When you understand all of this it makes live a lot easier.
(03-01-2024) Surround yourself with good and you will come good. If you surround yourself with bad you will become bad. Therefor always keep good compagny. "Consider your mind as a garden and your thoughts as seeds." If you plant seeds of poisonous plants and nourish them daily by watering them. Then soon your garden will be full of these poisonous plants. However if you stop plants of poisonous plants and start planting nurturing beautiful flowers over the time the poisonous plants wither away and slowly and slowly your garden will be filled with vibrant and beautiful flowers. Similarly the thoughts and images we continously nourish and focus on grow and dominate our mind. If we decide to shift our attention and nurture positive and wholesome thoughts, the negative and dirty ones will start to fade away. When your mind is full with dirty thoughts do not fight those thoughts. The more you will try to resist those thoughts the stronger they will become. By trying to suppress them, you unknowingly attach yourself to them. Being to attached to these thoughts make their impact on you even stronger. Let the thoughts come and go, watch them without judgement. Consider it like watching a movie. If you are emotionally attached to the story, you react to every twist. But if you understand it is just a fiction, you remained unaffected. Similarly during meditation, observe your thoughts as if they are mere projections on the screen. Stay aware and present and soon you will find tranquility. Stop look at explicit content and do not panic about your thoughts. It is like cleaning your house, all the garbage comes out. Similary when we meditate all the garbage of the mind comes out. Meditation can actually cleanse our mind. The key is to observe these thoughts without attachment. Just like watching a movie without emotions. Over time your mind will become more peacefull and you will find the joy of meditation. So avoid sowing those seeds in your mind and practise meditation to purify your thoughts, slowly but surely.
(10-01-2024) Women hide their attraction mechanism from men because their goal is to conceal their interest and intent so you do not know where you stand with them, Woman will not let you know when they like you. Men are mostly to direct. Woman like to develop things slowly. This allows her to have some leverage and some psychological power in their head. She maintains a sense of psychological control because she wants you to value her. This is her whole strategy. It is to make you uncertain of her interst level towards you. Woman do this on purpose. Any display of status, any display of wealth, every display of regcognition or competence, socially will be dismissed and will be hidden despite that womens interest is rising by the second. That is so powerful. She does not want you to know that she finds you attractive and skyhigh interest so she has more leverage in the interaction. Women want to keep it that way so you do not see your own value, have more leverage in the relationships and they want to keep you naive so you will not know where you stand and what your sexual market value is so she has psycholical leverage. On top she will act as if she do not notice. She will try to get you to believe it is all about chemistry and say we click well. She is trying you to believe she has you for your personality. She wants you to give you the illusion she is quality. She knows this adds to her feminine charme, her sex appeal and her seduction. Most guys are unaware of this and thinks he picked a good one. Her actions tell you what really is going on, do not trust her words. Her words are designed to mislead you. Always watch her actions. Avoiding bullshit in your life is maintaining your sexual market value high. Do not act desperate. The hungry never get fed. You need to act as if and you will already have abundance. When you around a pretty woman you need to act if this is a common accurent. Keep your sexual market value high, that means take care of your body, that you are confident, do what you like, live a life with purpose, life your life on your own terms. You will notice you keep attracting more and more women. The more women you attract the easier it will be to maintain the girl you have or develop option for a better fit for the future. When you focus on your path your sexual market value naturally will be high. Your body, mind and spirit will gravitate to activities that are masculine. Do not make women your focus but your own path. Now women want to come in to your life.
(12-01-2024) When a women is ignored they can not handle this redraw of attention. Men are used to be ignored. When a hot woman is ignored by one man this man got her attention and all her insecurities are coming up.
(13-01-2024) A women cannot stay in love with an attached man. You are then lowering you value or your perceived value in her eyes. That is why the girls you really want are, which are most beautiful, super pretty, amazing personalities, all of these types of women are often single because they cannot find a man that demonstrates the right things. You have to understand the importance to limiting intimacy and interest indicators. This is very hard to do when you have very high attraction to her. It is best to remove the touchy feely vibe as soon as possible. This is handholding, kissing, cuddling. These things lower her desire. You want to give her space. She needs that distance to want to come to you. It signals, I am a complete person. I do not need you, do not necessary need you to complete me. The goal by doing this is to get her to indicate those things first. She has to initiate the contact now and allows her to feel feminine and seduce him and also something to work for. Once connection and chemistry has formed you need to limit texting and calling. You let the woman bring the day to day communication. This is where most men go wrong. Woman are better in it, woman are natural relation builders. The guy a woman really want they go all out on valentines day, they go all out he is taken care of, They only reserve that level of treatment for the guys they really want. This is where men go wrong, they overinvest to all of the women they talk to and are not able to atract anybody. When you are a man and make this mistake, overcommunicating the results are this no matter who you are, what your income level or status is. You demonstrate low value or you do not have a lot of options. When you demonstrate to much interest it shows her that she is in the higher leverage position than you and that naturally turns her of. It shows also a lack of options. For her it is to much and shows you are not the selector who picks the women he likes. She thinks the other girls are not interested in him and subconsciously thinks he has not the value I am looking for. It also shows it is not focussed on you. So it looks you are not complete. A woman want to come into the life of a complete man. When you make her the center of your life this is for her a to high priority. She does not want that. When you both have a decent interest in eachother and you are not needy after some time together then she wants to close that gap. The mindset is day to day in everything you do in life is to never built anything with her as a man. It means you are present in the moment. When you never see her again that is ok. This keeps you in the right energy. You just need to take a deep breath and chill out. How do you not get attached? Your remove any behaviour that demonstrates to much interest or a sense of self qualification. You have to see the things that show a lack of self esteem with your own two eyes: 1) double texting, you need to control your lust 2) over explanations, with too many text, just say I agree or something like that. 3) check in text, like how is your day going? goodmorning. 4) asking how she feels about you, ti ruins the chemistry. A women do not like men who is chasing commitment, it turns them of. You need to limit your time persuiing them. She is a complete individual just as you are. You need to let things play out slowly. This is how you do not get attached to women. When your investment level go up, then you are emotionally invested in this woman, mentaly invested or even spiritally invested and makes you more attached and now she do not want you. So really make sure you spot these things. You need to do this in any level in life, not overqualifing, does not matter how old you are and sollid truths for your dating life and social skills. When you walk into a room you do not feel the need to overqualify, put up a big show to please people, you kick back, relax, you have your friends.
(27-01-2024) According the women in this video in her spercific case a woman has a on and off switch and the capacity to turn it on or off. Women have the swith on for bad boys and have them of for good men untill they are ready to settle down, get married and start a family. The woman used the on switch to trap you and get what she wanted. First the woman get plenty of sex and then they get married and the sex stops. All the men is good for is a sperm donor and financial security, the rest is a fascade that she is in to you, passionate about you, loving you, cannot wait to be together with you. They will have sex once a month just for that financial security. All kind of fake stories came up and she kept the switch off but gave her man just enough to fool him. Then the games did begin why she did not want to have sex anymore, fake stories like, the past, the relationship with her dad. I have low self esteem, I do not know what I like. out of nowhere. She want him to change, this technique, can we read this book together, going to counceling and good men will fall for that. He was trying to do all she wanted. When he did all these things it still did make her happy and said this is not what I wanted. When her switch was off there was nothing her man could do to turn that switch back on. The woman said this is our problem. So do not be fooled that there is something you did wrong because her switch was on when she met you and you are still the same man.
(06-02-2024) Why women sleep with losers or bums and always leave good quality men, When a man did every thing right what was told by his parents, the world, society that will equal a great dating life and a perfect women is his life. This a lawyer, a churgeon or a man with a very good job and her dream man. He is goodlooking, low body fat, very good with money. succesful and did everything right on paper that society told him. The guy that fits this picture lacks the masculine spirit that women find extremely arousing and therfor leaves him. Sexual market value is not the same as materialistic high value on paper. The guy that may not have a job, the guy that lives in his parents basement a woman is looking different too. She thinks: 1) He does not really care what people think, that is hot. 2) He is rebelious and live life on his own terms. 3) He parties a lot and does what he wants, he does not care. This is the masculine edge and the masculine spirit women gravitate too. When you adapt these character trades, this is what will lead to sex. It is the attitude, the attitude of internal high value. This is the guy women actually are sleeping with and never think of. The guy you think is a loser or has nothing going on does not feel the need to self qualify or conform what other people think is normal or other people think is respectable. The guy who did everything right is actually a follower. The other guy is a leader in his own life. To women this is alpha. It does not matter how much money you have, drive a lamoorghini etc etc, they see the insecurity and that you need to prove yourself. This is low value energy. This guy does not to self improve and do all this crap and does not feel good enough on the inside. The other guy does feel good enough without doing anything therfor I am going to sleep with him because the traits he was born with and has natural confidence and just be himself and the guy is how he is. Being a good man will bring you 1) competency. 2) good career 3) the ability to be a good long term provider. It will not equal 1) arousal 2) desire 3) sex appeal. Do not hate the game, just get better at playing it.
(15-02-2024) Never trust a woman when dating. Women optimize their entire life for survival. Now you can apploy the correct attraction mechanism at will. Women judge the attraction of a man based off of his ability to aid in her survival. She wants to know 100% of the time that she is protected, that means this man is a beast, who is competent, who is strong, knows what he is doing, is well respected, is a mans man. She wants to know that she is provided for, that there are resources. She feels save for herself and her ofspring.when things go wrong. Lies occur because her emotions dictate what is true in that exact moment. Mostly they use verbal play to bend the sentences to manipulate the illusion of what the reality actually is to convice you or persuade you 1) they did not know what they are doing 2) it was happening by accident 3) you are wrong and she is right for her reasons. Women are very good at this. They make sure that there are different frames and illusions. Her truth is flexible based on how she feels to protect a few things. The reason why women that lie still believe them as the truth is due to the fact is that if she can lean into this it is going to aid in her survival, she wants to be protected. 1) She want to protect her emotional investment in a man and wants it to last and not end it not on her own terms. 2) Her secured resources or potential resources, potential survival of a man, what a man can bring is protected. 3) Her ability to be viewed as innocent, to be viewed as pure or feminine is always there even if that is not what she is. Their nature is to bring illusions of false perceptions in your head, then she has done her job properly because in that moment that lie became true and helps protect her own survival. When her mouth is moving automatically assume they are lying. Why??? The reason to assume they are lying is women are insecure and compairing them to other women especially regarding their beauty. 1) to protect their ego. 2) always end a relation on their terms. 3) bring the feeling of higher value or beauty then the other girls in your head even if this is not true. She paints illusions of reality that is different for every man that she encounters. How do you encounter all this? You have to be a man worth persuing. As a man we need 1) a career/purpose 2) money, without it is almost impossible to survive. 3) captivating lifestyle not only for you but other people that come into your world. This takes time. Women get a lot of satisfaction in getting the man they want. When you put a lot of time in dating you will have no time for leveling up your masculinity.The most of the time spent needs to be on yourself.
(21-02-2024) Intellectually stimulating and deep conversation with women destroys all attraction when dating. So do not do this. Women never want to actually know what you are thinking. Once a woman' feels as if she fully has you figured out, this is the moment she leaves you. Women only care about a few things: 1) the vibes 2) the energy 3) how you make them feel and how they feel when they are around you, this is the codeword for emotion. Anything logical that requires the meaning of life, purpose, deep heavy thinking feels heavy, Anything meaningful is anti seductive, Anything that requires excese thaught is hard. How to talk about yourself while being a mystery? Things have to be very basic such as sentences like: I like it when... I aways do... I love it when women act like this. The reason why to start with I is because I am the the focus, I am the center of attention. I want her in my world and in my frame. Notice one thing, I do not talk about my actual life, my goals, my purpose, my dreams. At this point of the interaction it is irrelevant, all we are doing now is building chemistry, it goes organically and feels safe with you, things feel fun. Let her to discover you slowly. Any talk about career, goals, purpose as a demonstration of value to the women comes across as you are self qualifying and is anti seductive and anti attractive. This is heavy energy. You can have all the looks, all the status, all the money, all the status in the world that you want. Your words and the sentences that come out of your mouth dictate her emotions, it is the words that is the key. Let her watch your accomplishments through actions. Just do, just operate. Men who self qualify appear that they are not preselected for a lack of sexual market value. The amazing woman you found and everything felt great, the second those thaughts and feelings come 9 times out of 10 she feels the opposite. Your intuition and your feelings regarding relations with a woman always leads you astray.
(22-02-2024) Why women need constant emotional conflict to feel stimulated from a man when dating. Women are natural builders and natural nurtures of the internal world of emotion. That means relationships with only certain types of men. Why are men who are too perfect get boring very quick? 1) She has now no problems to solve. This is good for the exterieur but not for her internal world of emotion which is the main catalyst that dictate if she wants to date a man or not. 2) She does not have anything to nurture or to tend to and does not feel very feminine or fully feel valued. This is why everything is smooth, everything just fine, never bring any emotional tension or chaos into a relationship, what does she do, she pulls back and introduce these arguments herself. It is like a kid with rich parents and the kid has a trusfund and his masculine journey to adulthood is never fully furfilled. His will to built, his will to grow is suppressed. His mindset is never in the mindset of sinking or swimming. This is why problematic men are a prime piece of real estate for female arousal. 1) Her emotions are natural engaged though his lack of care. 2) His masculine nature of being however he wants is a total turn on for her. 3) He cares zero what people think of him and therefor she sees he is strong. in his own identity. 4) His lack of emotional care for her also signals high sexual market value and by now she is totally in love. When you demonstrate those charateristics of not caring, being indifferent, being centered in your masculine frame and who you are. being completely self suficient, self centered, making sure that you comes first, you do all the things you want to do on a day to day basis. and you put yourself as number one she is very turned on and engaged by that type of men. She wants to try to fix his flaws. She mentally tries to win him over. You need to bring the emotional conflict before she does because she will bring it and when she brings it first this is very bad. When you as a man are perfect she will try drama as soon as possible. Why do you have to bring the drama first?. When you are in love with a woman you naturally get reactive when she does this when she adds drama and pull back, you get scared you lose her. As soon as that women senses that fear of loss, this signals 1) low sexual market value. 2) you are moved of center and getting emotional and senses you are scared and that is not attactive to a woman, when this goes to her brain she exits. This is when you change your attitude and demeanor to please her. This was a test and you failed the test. Never let a woman change who you are or your personality, ever! Her job is to see when your favourite colour is blue to make you wear purple and one step further to change your favourate colour. It is a congruancy test. That deep down the man is who he claims he is. In a relationship she will use 1) emotions 2) psychological manipulation to get you to change 3) her feminine beauty to try to sway your emotions. She is using those things to convice you if you listen to what she claims she wants she will like you or even love you more. This is a big massive test. When you fail this test and change to suit her needs she exit and now it is over, she proved to herself that you went weak for her. This is the ultimate sign of low value. This is the ultimate sign you are not rooted in leadership for his own life. The ultimate sign of a man who does not know his own purpose in life and this is a man who his attitude and personality changed. Do not ever do this. This is why women need emotional conflict constant to feel stimulated mentally with the man they are dating. This is why she always needs to fix something in the relationship. Woman are natural builders and nurtures of the internal world of emotion, that means relationships. Just as you as a man wants to built something on the external world like a bookshelf, etc etc, she likes to built something too and that is the internal world of emotion.
(24-02-2024) According Wise Stoic Living (2024) Marcus Aurelius encourages us to embrace our role as human beings reminding us that each day when faced with the reluctance to rise we should acknowledge our duty to function as humans. He questions the role of complaining when we are meant to fulfill the purpose for which we are born. Marcus Aurelius one of the last compassionate Roman emperors believed in the inherent purpose within each individual. He shared profound insights on discovering one’s purpose and living a virtuous life in his autobiographical writings known as the meditations. Here are ten essential insights derived from Marcus Aurelius writings on finding purpose: 1) Seize the present moment. Each moment when dissected and understood unfoulds a myriad of opportunities and lessons. Moreover the present is not a static entity but a dynamic canvas upon which our actions and decisions paint the picture of the future. Aurelius encourages us to be architects of our destiny by making judicious choices and taking deliberate actions in the present. 2) Add value. Marcus Aurelius ardently underscores the profound significance of contributing to the well being of others as a central tenet to our life’s purpose. Within this imperative he encourages a profound shift from a self centered orientation to one that prioritizes the uplifting of the ones in our immediate spheres. This transformative shift according to Aurelius is not only a moral imperative but a pathway to personal furfillment and collective prosperity. At the core of this principle is the recognition that our lives gain purpose and meaning when intertwined with the betterment of the lives of those around us. Aurelius advocates for a depature from individualistic persuits and a transcendence towards a communal focus by identifying and acknowledging our unique strengths, talents and capabilities we uncover the tools that enable us to make meaningful contributions to the live of others. This philosophy of adding is not a unidirectional endeavour instead it engenders a reciprocal exchange of value within the fabric of human interactions. A we selflessly offer our strengths to others we create a harmonious cycle where everyone involves experiences personal and collective growth. In this symbiotic relationship the giver and the taker become intergral parts of a virtuous circle each enhanching the well being of the other. 3. Seek happiness. In the tapestry of Marcus Aurelius’s philosophical reflections the persuit of happiness ermerges as a guiding beacon for a forfulling and purposeful life. Aurelius employs individuals to navigate the labyrinth of existence by following a path aligned with virtue guided by the principles of right thinking and right action. Within these overarching philosophy the essence lies in the persuit of what brings pure joy and contentment. 4. Initiate action. In essence Aurelius’s advocacy for initiation underscrores the transformative power of action. It is a call to move beyond contemplation and theoretical understanding urging individual to engage actively with their identified purpose. 5. Cultivate self-discipline. In the intricate tapestry of Marcus Aurelius’s wisdom the cultivation of self-discipline emerges as a cornerstone for constructing a purposeful life. In essence Aurelius teachings on cultivating self-discipline resonates as a timeless call for action. It encapsulates the recognition that the disciplined persuit of daily objectives even in the absence of immediate rewards lays the foundation for enduring success. 6. Detach from outcome. In the philosophical realm of Marcus Aurelius the council to detach from outcomes stands as a resilient pillar guiding individuals towards a serene and purposeful existence. Aurelius with profound insight advocates advices agains fixating on outcomes that lie beyond the realm of our control. Instead he advocates for a shift in focus towards elements within our sphere of influence, our actions and responses. In essence Aurelius council to detach from outcomes resonates as a timeless wisdom offering a pathway to liberate from the shackles of external uncertainties. 7. Find a role model. In essence finding a role model according to Aurelius is an intentional and transformative practice, it is an acknowledgement that the journey towards personal development is enriched by the wisdom and examples set by others. 8. Ignore negativety. In essence Aurerlius’s council to ignore negativety is a call to fortify the mental and emotional boundries necessary for persuing a purpose driven existence. It is an acknowledgement that external criticisms though inevitable need not become impediments by prioritizing the persuit of goals over succumbing to detractors individuals embody a resilience that paves the way for success and the furfillment of their life’s purpose. 9. View obstacles as opportunities. In essence Aurelius’s guidance to view obstacles as opportunities is an invitation to to engage with challenges not as adversaries to be feared but as compagnions in the journey towards self emprovement. It is a call to transform setbacks into setups for future success acknowledging that within every obstacle lies the potential to growth, innovation and the unfolding of our true potential. 10. Endless ambition. In essence Aurelius’s advocacy for endless ambition is an invitation to embrace the boundless potential within acknowledging that the persuit of greatness is an unending odyssey. It is a call to celebrate achievement while remaining attuned to the envolving tapestry of aspirations ensuring that life’s dynamic nature is met with a spirit of continuous improvement and an unwavering commitment with the persuit of purpose.
(26-02-2024) When you are 31, 32 and you are not married and do not have no kids, you might be single the rest of your life. There are two reason you are alone: 1) You enjoy your time alone and can call this selfishness, maybe you focus on your career, hobbies and a longturn relation just would be in your way. 2) The woman you like does not like you back. You have to built the life you want and then you invite the person into your life. A woman who cannot find a man can still take a less desirable man that makes decend money but the question for her is: Would you rather be miserable with somebody than happy alone? The same, a litte bit different applies for man. Alone you can have a peaceful lifestyle, you moan the lawn and crack open some beer. Make yourself your mental point of origin.
(09-03-2024) According Zander (2024b) a deeper level, spiritually masculine concept principle is what you have to internalize as you cary out your journey in dating and carrying out your journey who you are as a man. As a man aging it is very important to focus on attracting women like a magnet and not persuiing them. How and why? You can do this by not to create or force a vibe that is not there. On the surface your looks and style may say something about you like wealth accumulation it show competency, leveling up in your carreer shows knowledge and prestige but when you really get down to it, this is the difference between the type of guy sees a girl for a couple of weeks, months and than fizzle up but they guy that actually sees the girl and retains that relationship where she is head over heal over in love it is deeper than what meets the eye. She is investing in the character of the man and who he has became. So his character and his identity who he is is fortified. He attracts women because he knows himself and he is who he says he is. This is what most men lack until they are 45, 55 and by then you do not know how much time you have left. So the sooner you can do this the better. What does this have to do with the over persuiing of women. Woman fall in love with men who are not so good all the time. For example when she says you are an alcoholic and he says yes I am. He is who he says he is. A man having congruence is so important. The man accepts this and he likes himself. A woman is drawn to this. The number one problem is that men have no confidence and lack identity and never can lean into who they really are. So let me give you an example. It does not matter if you are the cowboy, the rockstar, rapper, basketball player, football player, crypto miljonair or the guy who is in all the movies. Women want to see that you are who you say you are and that you are ok with it. The problem is we live in a world of comparison. The rockstar now wants to be the cowboy and the cowboy wants to be the crypto miljonair. Women likes to see identity, identity equals congruency and congruency means that you are happy with yourself. Men over persuit women because they lack identity, lack life setup and they lack options which results in excess free time which result in needing the woman to feel complete as a man. That is deep. When she sees this in any sort of way, it could be the vibe, tonality, the way you cary yourself. This is the biggest turn off. It is in her natural hypergamous nature to gravitates towards the man, to want or to need to lock down the man for a commitet relation or for survival. You stop over persuiing women when you realize that a girlfriend, a wife, the beautiful woman will never will make you feel complete. This will help you. This is what happens: you start not care, you accepted your identity, that you are who you say you are. Are ok with yourself, the way that you speak, you are ok with yourself in all shapes and forms. You start to reply on your own terms and do things you feel like, not when it results in the right response or the right textmessage or the right situation from her. You stop being calculated, you stop trying to obtain the date. you stop trying to attain the relation. You are nonchalant because you have nothing to prove and you are ok with it. The only way to stop over persuiing the woman that you really want is actually becoming a man. The only way to become a man is getting a life and a one that is worth living. You are living a life of abundance, you are living a life of social abundance, adventure, fun, purpose, meaning. For a lot of you this is going to result in different things, you have to find that path for yourself. When you know deep down that the dream girl never will bring you true fulfillment, the amzing woman that you can have will never will bring you true fulfillment, you are going to obtain the relationship or you have amazing encounters with chemistry and intimacy, everything you could ever imagine, when you know that will not bring you true fulfillment you let the woman persuit you. When you let the woman persuit you this is what happens, you let them dive into their own hypergamous nature. This is the higest value or the strongest man they can get. The only way you can demonstrate this is to live in your own world, operate on your own terms and showing difference. When you do this and you understand these deep concepts, the text messageing takes care of itself. the length of textmessage reply takes care of themselves, what you say on the phone takes care of itselves, all the little thing if you are over communicating takes care of it selves. You became a man.This is a deep concept. On the front end when you are out with your friends you are having fun, you are in your own world having fun. When you are dating you show a difference. On the backend the relation is not going to complete you. It looks like actually a man who is sure of himselves and this is truthfully the only way to stop overpersuiing women. over persuing the relation, over persuiing the date, you have to be the one your are saying you are going to be and there is absolutely no other way to come around that.
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(02-06-2024) Rule number 1: They always come back. Be like an oak tree.
(04-06-2024) Always keep your own schedule, this way a woman never can friendzone you.
(08-06-2024) A woman will leave you for 2 reasons: 1) She wants more space, that means a) you are not making enough money b) she meets a man who is more handsome 2) She wants more power, that means she wants control over you like you are her property. She pulls back because she wants to make you insecure and wants you to run back to her like a simp. You have to put such a woman into her place. Make sure your routine doesnot change(your masculine frame). Create a culture of winning. When she wants space and you give her all the space she wants and do not look after her anymore, her system is overloaded and she realizes she just lost all the power in case she wanted power. She created distance to hurt your feelings but she could not hurt your feelings, and then what happened?, now you have the power and decide whether you let her into your life or not. Now you know all she wanted was is power, you took it away from her. She comes back with a new strategy to regain power. Once you get over this first step you created a winning culture. When she comes back into your life she has to submit.
(08-06-2024) Take ownership in the relation.
(21-06-2024) The past of a woman for example the relationship with her own father is important how she views the sex with a man. Is it seeking for validation or filling the void or will it be an healthy relation with the man she sleeps with?
(18-03-2025) Signs a woman doesn't want you - walk away now!
(15-07-2024) The art of not trying. I did not even try to make a summary now. Let things flow naturally without any force. Mastery of the world is by letting things take their natural course (Lao Tzu).
(14-10-2024) According Alexander Grace the only time you should believe a woman is when she has sex with you.